Do you feel like no matter what you do, you’re never doing the right thing for your spouse? Do you wonder what happened to the romance you shared before the honeymoon was over? Is your marriage starting to look a little rundown; perhaps a makeover is needed? The Bible details God’s blueprint for a healthy marriage. In Marriage Under Construction, conference leaders Luis and Angela Hernandez examine this design and share what happened when they took their young marriage through six fundamental building blocks for a long-lasting marriage. In their book, you’ll find practical advice on: *How to communicate to avoid unnecessary battles *How to respect your differences and build a strong bond *Why you should stop trying to change each other and what to do instead If you don’t want divorce as an option, and instead you want to strengthen your marriage then this book is for you. There are two versions of Marriage Under Construction. Four of the six chapters are identical in each book, but two of the chapters in this book are directed specifically to a man’s point of view. Find additional resources at http://www.remodelministries.org
A middle aged man sets off to post a letter and ends up walking without money, proper shoes, map, or food, for nearly 90 days, towards a destination over 600 miles away whose exact location he doesn’t even know. His mission: to save a life.
After several of the early pages wondering where on earth this story was going, I found myself drawn towards Harold, his wife, and the terminally ill woman he has decided to visit. Curiosity got the better of me and before long I was turning pages avidly, needing to know the outcome. Would he make it in time? What damage had he done to his marriage? What was the mystery surrounding his estranged son?
And it gradually dawned on me that this story is about living an extraordinary life, about having the courage to live in the unknown, to commit, and to take action, no matter how ‘dull and ordinary’ one’s circumstances are.
Harold is joined and subsequently deserted by a motley crew of well-wishers and fame seekers. Even Dog, who had, as Harold said, ‘chosen to walk with Harold for a while, and then it had chosen to stop, and walk instead with the young girl. Life was like that.’
To quote Alfred Hickling in The Guardian, Rachel Joyce successfully conveys ‘profound emotions in simple, unaffected language’.
And for me, therein lies both its charm and its success.
This book is design to take married couples and couples ready to get married through the scriptures. When you are done reading this book, you will know whether your relationship is out of convenience or if you are in a covenant. Let us study what God has to say before we let the world at our relationship.
“Now let me deal with this part straightforward: don’t always be a waiter hater. What I mean by this is that you’re the one always waiting for your spouse to make a move. When they don’t, you get upset or go into the “They don’t love me” or “Am I still attractive?” phases. Because they may have overlooked who you are (male/female), doesn’t mean you should. This may be the time for you to take back what’s missing and remind your spouse what they’re missing. ”
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